25 Ways To Flip Her Sex Switch On

‘The next time you kiss her, make it long and nice. Men use kissing primarily as a means to an end to advance sexual relations.

On the other hand, women mainly use kissing as a way to monitor the status of the relationship, and especially a partner’s commitment level’ Sex isn’t a race: Take time to explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Don’t be obsessed with only her boobs and south-side.

Give her plenty of time: If you want morning sex, set your alarm at least 20 minutes early. A woman won’t want sex if she’s hurried. She knows she probably needs about 20 minutes to reach orgasm. Grunts are better than nothing: She’ll be more enthusiastic about sex if you give her a verbal response. Even appreciative grunts are better than silence.

Ignore other women: Remain calm when a decked-out woman strolls by and you’ll be sending the message that you’re all hers. Nothing turns a woman on more than that assurance.

Use your tongue wisely: When kissing, don’t use your tongue like a dart (in and out, in and out). Instead, try varying motions and amounts of pressure. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Words such as: “I want to make you feel good” go a long way. Write her a letter of gratitude: Seriously! It will make her more eager to please you if she knows you really appreciate what you do together. Write what you feel, but the ruling sentiment should be one of gratitude and love. Need we say you should mail it to her? Don’t keep it under your pillow or in the ‘Draft’ folder of your computer.

Call her within the hour: You have just had the greatest sex of your life with your girlfriend. She leaves for her place or you drop her off. Call her within the hour to let her know how much she means to you. Don’t wait until your next erection to contact her.

Ease into dirty talk: Want to know if she likes to talk dirty? Tell her: “You make me think dirty thoughts.” Ease in slowly. It’s best to test the waters a bit, rather than immediately go for your deepest, kinkiest dirty talk right out of the blues.

Be generous with compliments: Compliment her at least five times a day. It’ll make her feel special, appreciated, and closer to you. And the more connected she feels, the more sexually inspired she’ll feel Excite her senses: If you don’t have a perfume that she likes, shop for one with her. It’s a form of foreplay.

Hold her hand: Holding hands can work as an aphrodisiac. It shows heryou’re  devoted and proud to tell the world that she is ‘the one.’

Prolong your kisses: The next time you kiss her, make it long and nice. Men use kissing primarily as ameans to an end to advance sexual relations. On the other hand, women mainly use kissing as a way to monitor the status of the relationship, and especially a partner’s commitment level.

Keep the lights low: One of the biggest reasons women can’t relax during sex is body image. Keep the lights low. A candle? Perfect. Show her passion. “Passion” means being in the moment and not being distracted. Sex is a conversation, and she doesn’t want to feel like you wish you had your BlackBerry.

Whisper fantasies in public: Yes, forget the people all around, and whisper fantasies to one another, sparing no detail. You’ll create sexual tension—but with safety, as there’s no possibility of sex then and there. It creates an exciting build-up for later.

Don’t agree to disagree: When you and your girlfriend/wife disagree, never agree to disagree. Agreeing to disagree shuts down the communication process and resolves nothing. And the less comfortable she feels communicating, the less confident she’ll feel about the relationship.

Ask her for a kissing lesson: Ask her to demonstrate what she considers a sexy kiss. Then let her do all the work. It’s educational . . . and fun.

Mix things up in bed: Don’t be afraid to mix things up in bed. Sexual novelty re-creates those early-relationship, take-me-now hormones.

Start sex in a new place: Try someplace outside the bedroom. The same old place leads to the same old patterns. So explore some new erogenous areas: The kitchen, the bathroom, the study…Your bodies will be in new places, making it unlikely that you’ll follow old routines.

Feed her chocolate: It’ll load her up with phenylethylamine, a neurotransmitter that activates the brain’s pleasure center, and caffeine, which can jolt her sex drive.

Earn your right to experiment: Sexual experimentation is earned, not inherited. It requires time, tact, and trust: 66 percent of the women say they’re most willing to experiment later in a relationship.