Finding a man to be your boyfriend actually
isn’t a difficult thing. The difficult part is finding a man who deserves to be
your life partner.
Unfortunately, many men out there take
advantage of women’s vulnerability to seduction to easily get them. women too in a desperate attempt to Belong to the "Big Babes Club" make terrible mistakes that ruin their lives. In order to
choose the right boyfriend, below are 11
characteristics of a good man to be your boyfriend:
1. HE
TREATS YOU WELL
He doesn’t have to treat you like a
princess and spoil you everyday, but he knows what he has to do to show his
love and he will never hurt you. If he accidentally hurts you, he doesn’t
hesitate to come to you, admit his mistakes and apologize sincerely. He is a man
who appreciates and respects you. There is nothing more disgusting than a man
who degrades, commits
physical and verbal abuse towards a woman.
2.
HE IS A MAN OF HIS WORDS
When he says yes, then he will do it, when
he says no, then he won’t do it. Included in this trait, is a man who is loyal to his
girlfriend. When he promises that you will be the only woman he loves, then he
really doesn’t have another woman in his heart. In other words, he takes full
responsibility for his own words and realize them in his actions (He’s not
wishy washy in relationships).
3.
HE LOVES YOU INSIDE AND OUT
Why this kind of man is right for you?
Because he doesn’t only love you physically,
He loves all of the strengths and weaknesses you have. And most importantly, he
loves your imperfections,
perfectly.
4.
HE HAS A BRIGHT FUTURE
If you’re really serious about bringing
your relationship to a marriage, then you have to think about this. Do you have
to choose a man who already has
a well established job and good income? Not really. Most importantly, he is
mature in thinking and has good plans for the future. Of course, he doesn’t
spend most of his time playing video games and watching TV everyday. He is able to
balance fun and relaxation with work and productivity.
5.
HE IS ABLE TO GUIDE AND PROTECT YOU
In relationships, men are leaders. With
him, you can develop into a better woman. He also becomes the first person in
front of you to protect you from all kinds of dangers.
6.
HE IS CONFIDENT IN HIMSELF
Maybe he’s not handsome, but he always
seems very excited, his face looks so bright, he dares to face everyone, and he
has a pleasant personality. Most importantly, he is just being himself and not
trying desperately to change his attitude and behave like everyone else (e.g. a
movie star you like) when he is trying to draw your attention.
7.
HE IS AN INDEPENDENT MAN
Does
a man who spend every day hour, minute, and second to please you the right man
for you?
Frankly speaking, NO! Because it means he is
too attached and in the future, he will be very possessive of you. Independent
man also thinks about his own life, spends time with his family and friends,
and has other good activities to do. Don’t ever choose a needy or clingy man to
be your boyfriend.
8.
HE IS APPRECIATIVE OF YOU
He notices every little thing you do. When
you try your best to look pretty, he will praise you. When you fetch him a
glass of water, he will say ‘Thank you’. When you do things that are out of
your habit, he notices it.
9.
HE SPEAKS AND ACTS HONESTLY
He can tell you what really happens when he
makes a mistake. He does everything for you with sincerity with no bad
intentions. In addition, he is a man who doesn’t seek your approval by giving
praise and doesn’t hesitate to criticize yourself when you make a mistake.
Receiving praise is important to make you more motivated while criticism is
important to make you become a better woman.
10.
HE HAS GOOD MORALITY
His morality also affects your relationship
in the future. A man who has grown up as a good man and doesn’t have many
problems with society tends to act wisely in relationships. On the other hand,
a man with low morality (e.g. solving problems with violence, familiar with
criminality, drugs and free sex)
tends to bring the relationship into violence, quarrels, and infidelity.
11. FEAR OF GOD
God over everything! Do not
startup any relationship with a man that relegates the importance of God to the
background. A man who knows God is a man of wisdom. Watch-out for men who can
gist with you all day but can never kneel down to say a 1minute prayer with you,
watch-out for men who go to church occasionally, watch out for men who value clubbing
more than God, these men are time bombs so run away from such men.
Enjoy your weekend!
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